Indeed. Of course, we must try to avoid anything that merits punishment, but there is no rule against not despairing, is there?

[He pauses, and then, in contrast to his determined tone, his next words are softer.]

... Akira. [...] If you would not mind, would you tell me about Haru—what sort of person she was like? Not why she was chosen, or anything like that, but her life as you knew it.

Only if it would help, though. If it would bring you pain, then of course, you need not say anything.